DEAR DEIDRE: I’M keen to start a new life with a guy I was friends with at school.
That would mean walking out on my wife and two kids.
My old mate contacted me on Facebook. We’re both 32 but we were friends at school. There was always a chemistry between us but we never got physical then.
I got married and moved miles away. He joined the Army and we lost touch for ten years. I never forgot him, though, and hoped we would meet again.
We have been chatting online for a couple of months. The connection I am feeling with him is so strong. It’s like nothing I’ve felt for my wife or with anyone else.
He’s now sent a message saying if I leave my wife he’ll be there. What should I do?
DEIDRE SAYS: Family life can feel gruelling but walking out on your wife and children will be devastating for all of them.
Were you happy before he came back on the scene? Being in touch with him has stirred feelings up but your life has moved on and there is no guarantee you would be happy with him.
My e-leaflet Bisexual Issues can help you start thinking this through.
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