Six in 10 adults admit pandemic made them worry for elderly parent’s futures

More than six in 10 adults say the coronavirus pandemic has heightened their fears for their parent's futures.

A study of 2,000 adults aged 40 and over with elderly parents found half felt the restricted contact during the lockdowns has made them think about how they will care for them in years to come.

And for 57 per cent, Covid has given them a glimpse of what life could be like if they are unable to check in on their parents regularly.

More than four in 10 adults (41 per cent) worry their parents will be isolated and alone, while 33 per cent are concerned about the risk of falls.

Other fears include that they are not eating and drinking properly (16 per cent), they aren't safe and secure in their home (11 per cent) and that they aren't as active as they should be (31 per cent).

As a result, 62 per cent have made more effort to call their parents on the phone during the pandemic.

Happily, 43 per cent said their parents are now better than ever at using technology – after becoming adept at communicating via the likes of social media, Facetime and video calls.

Because of this, seven in 10 firmly believe their parents would now be more open to considering some sort of passive, non-intrusive technology in their homes.

The research was carried out by Anthropos, provider of a connected care platform, which allows care companies and family members to monitor the daily routines of isolated older people, and spot when there are changes that can indicate additional support is needed.

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Jim Patience, CEO of Anthropos, said: "For many people, the pandemic will be the longest they have spent apart from loved ones, particularly elderly parents.

"And it seems this time of limited contact has undoubtedly increased concerns of their safety and wellbeing with limited additional care available at present.

"Thankfully, there are new technologies available that help families to stay connected: not just smartphones, but other internet enabled devices.

"Being able to know that your elderly family members are OK or if they need help, even when you can't be in the same room, can go a long way to providing reassurance that their relatives are getting the care they need."

The study found technology has played a crucial role during the pandemic with 43 per cent of adults claiming their parents are far better now at using smartphones and laptops to stay connected with them.

Before the lockdowns, 66 per cent of adults felt guilty if they didn't phone or text their parents daily.

And the average adult would see their elderly loved ones four times a month and speak to them on the phone on 11 occasions.

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But during the pandemic, elderly parents were becoming proficient at conversing over video calls (32 per cent), communicating by text (19 per cent) and 14 per cent even embraced social media.

To combat any anxiety they may have, more than half of adults would like daily updates from their parents on how they are feeling, with 11 per cent wanting information in real time.

More than a quarter (26 per cent) would also like them to use care technology, such as monitoring devices.

And while 74 per cent of adults haven't yet broached the subject of future care options with their parents, four in 10 believe their parents would be willing to use technology to help reassure them they are okay as they get older.

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More than half of those polled via OnePoll would therefore like to know more about technologies which would allow them to monitor the behaviour and movements of their parents, without taking away any of their independence.

Jim Patience of Anthropos added: "Older people want to remain independent and that explains the increased willingness to look at technological solutions. It is also a key reason why so many adults often put off the question about needing additional care.

"However, technology to support them in a non-intrusive way can be a great first step in reassuring the bond and safety among family members."

Top fears for elderly parents

  • That they would be socially isolated or lonely
  • That they are at risk of falls
  • That they have become very inactive
  • That they show signs of forgetfulness
  • That they are not eating and drinking properly
  • That they are no longer safe and secure in their homes / where they live
  • That they have sleep-related issues
  • That they cannot manage their diet properly
  • That they cannot manage any prescription medicines they need to take
  • That they are not managing vital signs (such as blood pressure or heart rate etc)

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