Girlfriend ridicules size of my manhood and says ex-lovers were bigger

04/17/2021

DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend ridicules the size of my penis.

She tells me that most of her ex-boyfriends were at least two to three inches bigger than me and that one was even twice the size of me.

Despite her put-downs about it, she always orgasms and says that I’m good in bed.

So I don’t understand why she feels the need to humiliate me – sometimes in front of her friends.

I am 27 and she is 28. We have been together for three years.

I’m beginning to think it would be a good idea to let her sleep with more well- endowed men every now and again, otherwise I’m likely to lose her.

Surely it would be better to be cuckolded than single.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Put your foot down and tell your girlfriend she is out of order humiliating you about such an intimate subject.

Explain to her how this is upsetting you and don’t let her brush it off.

Whatever your size, you clearly understand her body as she is having regular orgasms and even praises your performance in bed.

This is about her lack of respect, not your penis size.

Instead of offering her an open ticket, tell her you won’t tolerate her put-downs any more.

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