DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS told by my wife to go to an escort because she isn’t interested in sex.
We’ve been married for five years and she has never really enjoyed sex, making it clear she only does it to please me.
It feels like we have zero sexual chemistry.
I’m 30 and she’s 25. This is really getting me down.
She makes me feel like a pervert for asking for normal things, such as oral sex.
Now she’s told me to book an escort if I want my needs fulfilled.
I don’t want to do that, because I love her.
How can I help her to enjoy sex – and to be a bit more adventurous?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your wife sounds as if she is inexperienced and anxious about sex, which might stem from the way she was brought up.
Has she ever felt real sexual pleasure?
Perhaps she requires more stimulation and foreplay before having intercourse – and also to feel more valued and special.
Talk to her and say how much you love her and want her.
It won’t hurt to help around the house more, too.
My support packs Creating A Sexy Mood and How To Thrill A Woman In Bed explain.
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