DEAR DEIDRE: I’M ashamed to admit that I’m still a virgin at 40.
Nobody knows because I lived with my ex-partner for 15 years, from when I was in my mid-20s.
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But although I loved her, she was weird about sex, and had no sex drive, so in the end I gave up trying.
Since we split up, I haven’t had another relationship. The main reason is I’m too embarrassed to tell a woman I’m a virgin.
And the older I get, the more humiliating it becomes.
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But I really want to experience sex and to find love again before it’s too late. I know I have a lot to offer.
How can I find a woman who will be understanding and who won’t laugh at my lack of experience?
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DEIDRE SAYS: You are not alone, and you have nothing to be ashamed about. It’s not your fault your ex wouldn’t have sex.
The more you worry about this, the more it will be a problem.
My support pack, Finding The Right Partner For You, has information on where to meet potential partners.
Develop a friendship and grow to trust someone before having sex.
The right woman won’t care if you’re a virgin and will enjoy showing you what to do.
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