DEAR DEIDRE: IS it selfish of me to walk down the aisle to the same song my sister did?
I’m due to get married in November and want to use a specific Ed Sheeran song that means so much to my partner and me.
But my sister used it at her ceremony in March.
I’d always planned to have this song, but my sister didn’t know that.
When we discussed it, she flew off the handle, telling me I was trying to “steal her thunder”.
She’s 34 and I’m 36.
We’ve always had a difficult relationship. She thinks I’m always trying to one-up her.
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My mum keeps telling me to change the song.
But why should I compromise on my special day?
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DEIDRE SAYS: It is your special day and about so much more than a song, so why not choose another in the interests of harmony?
I’m sure you would rather your friends and family didn’t compare your big day to your sister’s.
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You want it to be a positive, not awkward, occasion.
It’s an opportunity to find another song to carry special meaning for you and your partner.
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