My workmate says that he is 'not coming on to me' but I honestly feel like he is

DEAR DEIDRE: MY workmate is always saying that he is “not coming on to me” but I honestly feel like he is.

He is always hanging around me and making comments which are full of innuendo.


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It is very disconcerting, and I am not sure what to do.

I’m a 25-year-old man and he is 24. We have worked together for two years and I like him as a friend, but I don’t have any feelings for him.

I don’t want to hurt his feelings or get him into trouble because we do get on most of the time.

I try to avoid him as much as I can, but it is making me feel as though I don’t want to go into work.

DEIDRE SAYS: Try to firmly explain that being friendly colleagues is all you are interested in. 

If he continues, tell him you will have no choice but to talk to your line manager or HR department.

Hopefully that will be enough to stop his unwanted advances.

My support pack Standing Up For Yourself explains assertiveness techniques to help you get the message across clearly. 

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