DEAR DEIDRE: SOON I will be a dad with my long-term girlfriend but I think I’m bisexual.
I’m 26 and have been with my girlfriend, who’s 25, for three years.
A few months ago she said she was pregnant.
It was unexpected news but we started making arrangements to move in together.
In the past few weeks, however, I’ve developed feelings for a colleague, a man.
He’s 38, tall, strong and very manly. I find myself staring across the building site at him.
A few of the lads have noticed and started taking the mick. I laugh it off but the truth is I’m doubting my sexuality.
I think about him all the time, even when I’m in bed with my girlfriend.
Sometimes I fantasise about him and become aroused. I’ve always been straight and have never had gay feelings before.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Maybe you have gay feelings or perhaps you simply admire this guy because you would like to be more like him – and this is manifesting itself in a sexual way.
Or perhaps this is more about your anxiety over becoming a new dad.
Having a baby is a big life change and can be unsettling.
Try not to worry about labelling yourself. Our sexuality is rarely set in stone.
My support pack Gay Worries? explains more.
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